CCA mates are unwilling to work with you because of your personality

 

 

Possible CAUSES

1. Personality (introvert or demanding and stubborn)

2. Due to your behaviour, your CCA mates are unhappy with you.

 

As a RESULT

> Quarrels often occur due to disagreement on certain things

> When working as a team, your group takes a very long time to complete a task.

 

the Negative Emotion

Frustrated when CCA mates constantly leave you out of their outings or activities

Disappointed when CCA mates do not want to be friends with you

 

What you CAN DO

 

1) Learn what your friends think of you, and acknowledge it.

Change your attitude and behaviour.

Circumstances are unchangeable, but you are able to change yourself.

By possessing a more favourable personality, you will have a better time working with your CCA mates.

 

2) Learn when to give in, compromise and assert.

It is important to stand for your own opinion, but it is also essential to listen to others’ opinions.

Do not be self-centered but get involved in various CCA activities so that you are able to build a better friendship with your CCA mates.

 

3) Learn to work as a team.

Teamwork is one of the main ways to success in completing a task.

By sharing the work equally and performing your own rightful roles, the task is then able to be completed.

 

4) Improve yourself based on their comments.

It is much more helpful to change your behaviour than to complain that you are unable to work with your CCA mates.

4. CCA Mates