Unable to manage proper friendship with classmates

 

Possible CAUSES

1. Social anxiety

2. Lack the knowledge on managing proper friendship

3. Personality (introvert or demanding and self-centered)

 

As a RESULT

> Classmates are reluctant to be friends with you, mainly due to your introverted or self-centered personality, and social anxiety.

> During interaction, you and your friends are unable to come up with topics for discussion.

> You and your classmates quarrel very often on even the minor things.

 

the Negative Emotion

Disappointed when one has very few friends

Frustrated when your "friends" always criticise you

 

What you CAN DO

 

1) Be less conservative and open up yourself more to your friends.

Be more active when interacting with your classmates.

Get yourself involved in more class-bonding activities.

Be yourself and speak out your mind.

Your classmates will then see you as friendly and are more willing to make friends with you.

 

2) Learn about the topics that interest your classmates.

This is so that you have things to talk about.

Interaction is always good for your friendship with classmates.

It will not be awkward if you have things to talk about with your friends.

 

3) Seek advice on from teachers or parents.

Ask them for help on how to manage healthy relationships with friends. 

WIth years of experience, they are able to provide you with helpful suggestions on how to manage your friendship.