Chose the wrong clique / friends

 

Possible CAUSES

1. Social anxiety

2. Not knowing how to choose the right friends

 

As a RESULT

> Choose the wrong clique or friends

> Your friends insult you behind your back.

> You meet friends who are two-faced. When they are not with you, they show another personality.

 

the Negative Emotion

Disappointed when your friends insult you

Frustrated when you know you chose the wrong clique, but you cannot leave the clique

 

What you CAN DO

 

1) Be more observant about the people around you.

You will have a better idea of each person’s personality through their actions.

However, do not be too judgemental.

 

2) Ask for different opinions of a certain person before deciding to be friends with him/her.

With a clearer understanding of that person, you can decide whether you want to be friends with him/her or not.

 

3) Stand up for yourself, and leave the clique if it is not suited for you.

If they insult you behind your back, or are two-faced, stop being friends with them.

It will benefit you in the long run when you choose the correct friends that are more suited for you.

2. Clique Choice